January Direct Action
and Advocacy

With the Traditional Plan going into effect on January 1, 2020, we strongly encourage you to consider scheduling a direction action or advocacy opportunity for your community/congregation. This is the time to make our voices heard and empower our congregations to speak out against the harm that the Traditional Plan will cause the people, congregations, and communities we call home. In addition to the above suggestions, consider:

1

Write a letter to your Bishop & Conference Leaders asking them to stop the harm.

Write a personalized letter to your Bishop and leaders of your conference asking them to stop the harm and to agree to not facilitate or move on trial complaints against LGBTQIA clergy or clergy who perform same-gender weddings. An example letter can be found here, but you will need to write the letter to coincide with your Bishop’s response to the Traditional Plan.

2

Schedule & host a virtual direct action on Sunday, January 5, 2020.

On Sunday, January 5, we invite all of our participating congregations and communities to take pictures of themselves, their classes, or congregations holding Resist Harm signs and post them on social media with the hashtag #ResistHarm. You can create your own Resist Harm 8.5 x 11 and 11 x 17 signs by downloading files, banners, and other resources from our Communication Tools.

3

Write a letter to support or encourage your Bishop or Conference Leaders if they have refused to process complaints or trials.

If your Bishop or Conference has already made a statement that they will not process complaints or trials, write a letter expressing support and appreciation. If you have reason to believe that your bishop or conference is not going to process complaints, write a letter encouraging them to be prophetic leaders.

For example, The Western Jurisdiction Bishops pledged to not process any complaint against LGBTQ+ clergy or clergy who officiate same-gender weddings, so a letter of support and appreciation would be appropriate. Where we have reason to believe the bishop is not going to process complaints, we would encourage a positive word as you encourage them to be a prophetic leader.

4

Host a direct action at your Episcopal Office, congregation, or some other strategic location in your annual conference.

In some contexts, it might be best to hold a direct action at the episcopal offices and hand deliver a letter with large numbers of people. In other contexts, the letter to the bishop might be more strategically delivered online and signed by as many people as possible with a direct action organized at a location other than the episcopal office. The purpose of having larger numbers of people on hand is to show our solidarity and overwhelming local opposition to the Traditional Plan, not to be intimidating or threatening to the bishop or to episcopal staff.

Remember, even if the bishop isn’t supportive of our efforts, many of the people in the conference or episcopal offices may be. We know that a majority of the bishops in the U.S. find fault with the Traditional Plan just as much as we do. So, discern what will be the most effective way to share your witness and win allies to the cause of LGBTQ justice and inclusion.

For example, in Alabama-West FL, there is a plan to set up a meeting with the bishop with a large number of attendants. They plan to ask him to do no harm and process no complaints, and to offer to lay lands on him as they pray for God’s guidance. For the Alabama-West FL context and bishop, planners have decided that will be the most effective. What is best for your context?

Direct Action Planning Guide

Upcoming Events

Meeting with Bishop Graves

January 6, 2020 9:00 am
AWF Episcopal Office
4719 Woodmere Boulevard Montgomery. AL 36106
Hosted by: AWF RMN Groups and others who want to ResistHarm

On January 6th a group of laity and clergy will be meeting with Bishop Graves. This meeting has been set up with Bishop Graves for 9:00 AM. We appreciate Bishop Graves meeting with us even though he is hosting the SEJ Bishops later that day. Please join us as we meet with him, ask him to be supportive of a more inclusive church, ResistHarm, and so many United Methodists who are opposed to the Traditional Plan and the other discriminatory language of The Discipline. We will also ask him if we could pray for him. This is a difficult time! We need as many people as possible to participate! Please come and be supportive!

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Great Plains Resist Harm Kickoff

January 4, 2020 10:00 am
Countryside UMC
3221 SW Burlingame Rd, Topeka, KS 66611
Hosted by: Great Plains UMCNext, Mainstream UMC and Reconciling Ministries Network

We will gather for Epiphany worship at Topeka Countryside UMC followed by a trip to the Great Plains Conference office to deliver the letters to Bishop Saenz from the GP UMCNext letter writing campaign. To send a letter, be sure to check out the instructions in the November issue of the GP UMCNext News: https://us3.admin.mailchimp.com/campaigns/show?id=3756829 More info to come.

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#resistharm worship service

January 5, 2020 5:30 pm
First UMC- Little Rock
723 Center Street, Little Rock, AR 72201
Hosted by: Arkansas UMCNext

The service will be lgbtq led, with support from allies. The homily will be delivered by Bonnie Allen, Chicago, IL. Allen is a graduate of Rhodes College, and received her law degree from the University of Florida College of Law. She has a Masters in Theological Studies from Garrett-Evangelical Theological Seminary. Currently, Allen is the CEO of the Chicago Lawyers Committee for Civil Rights. All are welcome.

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A Different Way

January 5, 2020 11:00 am
Hollywood UMC
6817 Franklin Ave, Hollywood, CA 90028
Hosted by: Hollywood UMC

#ResistHarm worship service. LGBTQ focus and launch of book project which will comprise stories of harm received by LGBTQ people and the healing they have received at Hollywood UMC. Group photo of all those in attendance will be taken all holding #ResistHarm posters. LGBTQ Associate Pastor preaching (also is the LGBTQIA Advocacy Coordinator for the Cal-Pac annual conference). #Resistharm fence line banner will be displayed from 1/1/20.

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Blessing of Unions

January 12, 2019 10:30 am
Bering Church
1440 Harold St Houston, TX 77006
Hosted by: Bering Church

Bering Church unequivocally denounces the “Traditional Plan” and the portions of the Book of Discipline that discriminate against LGBTQAI+ persons, couples and families. Beginning January 1, 2020, In opposition to the harmful actions of the United Methodist denomination in implementing this plan, Bering Church (formerly referred to as Bering Memorial UMC) will not use “United Methodist” in any of its communications until the discrimination ends.

Additionally, the January 12, 2020, 10:50 am worship service will be a protest against this plan and a celebration and affirmation of all LGBTQAI+ couples and families who are being discriminated against by it. During worship, a special blessing will be offered for all same gender couples and families because they are the ones being discriminated against by the denomination. We will bless, affirm, protest and celebrate in worship and at the reception immediately following the worship service.

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Covenantal Celebration of Holy Marriage

December 29, 2019 6:30 pm
First United Methodist Church - Dallas
1928 Ross Avenue Dallas, Texas 75201
Hosted by: First United Methodist Church - Dallas

All married couples are invited to this special worship service celebrating the sacred covenant of marriage, which will be followed by a reception. This service is part of the slate of recommendations from the Church at the Crossroads Commission, which developed FirstChurch’s official response to the passing of the Traditional Plan at the called General Conference this past February.

This will be a worship service where any married couple can reaffirm their vows to one another. A reception in Fiedler Atrium will be held after the service .

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Resist: A Worship Service Protesting the Harm of the Traditional Plan

January 5, 2020 7:00 pm
Tulsa--St. Paul's United Methodist Church; Oklahoma City--Mosaic United Methodist Church; Lawton--St. Paul's United Methodist Church
Tulsa--1442 S. Quaker Ave; OKC--3130 NW 50th; Lawton--910 NW 38 St.
Hosted by: OKUMC for Equality

This "Resist" worship service is an act of protest to the harm brought by the Traditional Plan (passed at General Conference 2019) which goes into effect on Jan. 1, 2020.

All are welcome to join us for a worship service that will include song, prayer, and a time of collective action as we unite to resist the injustice, discrimination, and harm of the traditional plan, and as we affirm our commitment to the inclusion and acceptance of all God's children especially our LGBTQIA+ siblings.

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Epiphany Worship And #Resist Harm

January 4, 2019 2:00 pm
St Paul Benson
5410 Corby St. Omaha, Nebraska 68104
Hosted by: UMCNext, Mainstream and Reconciling Ministries Network

Join us on to celebrate the Epiphany story and reclaim our baptismal vows as we offer ourselves as a living resistance to the Traditional Plan. God calls us, as wise people to go home by another way. Join us for worship, an opportunity to write letters expressing opposition to the Traditional Plan, and learn about resources you can use to join the movement to #ResistHarm in the Great Plains and the United Methodist Church.

Two new helpful websites: www.greatplainsumcnext.com for the Great Plains-curated resource page or www.resistharm.com for more resources and options.

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Meeting with Bishop Johnson

January 1, 2020 4:00 pm
Peninsula-Delaware Conference Resource Center
139 N State St, Dover, DE 19901
Hosted by: UMC Next Pen-Del

Bishop Johnson recently wrote a pastoral letter, in which she stated that she would not refer to trial complaints against clergy for officiating same-sex weddings or being self-avowed practicing homosexuals.

Join us in meeting with the Bishop, as we deliver letters of thanks and support for her decision. She has taken a stand - let's demonstrate that we stand with her!

All supporters are encouraged to write a personal letter. We will organize drop-off points for people who are unable to deliver their letters in person.

You can read Bishop Johnson's full pastoral letter letter here:
https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pastoral-Letter-from-Bishop-Peggy-A--Johnson.html?soid=1115113910561&aid=7LjssjZRysk

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Renewal of Marriage Vows for All Couples

January 1, 2020 1:00 pm
United Methodist Church of Palm Springs
1555 E. Alejo Road, Palm Springs, CA
Hosted by: United Methodist Church of Palm Springs

We are inviting all couples, gay and straight, to renew their marriage vows and all people (single, partnered, widowed, married non-renewing) to come and stand for love and justice! Officiant is Rev. Jane Voigts

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Resist Harm Worship Service

January 5, 2020 5:30 pm
Trinity United Methodist Church
1021 W Sycamore St, Fayetteville, AR
Hosted by: UMCNext AR chapter

A worship service to address the intent of the #resistharm. The service will include hymns, prayers, scripture and communion. Childcare will be provided. All are welcome. Reception to follow.

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Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms

February 15, 2020 7:00 pm
Mission Hills UMC
4044 Lark Street, San Diego, CA 92103
Hosted by: Mission Hills UMC, MissionGathering San Diego and SD Pride

Matthias Roberts, queer therapist, author, and host of popular podcast Queerology, will be coming to speak about his new book "Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms" at Mission Hills UMC. This event will be in partnership with MissionGathering San Diego, and will include a panel in partnership with SD Pride with faith leaders engaging in dialogue about shame in their particular contexts. #ResistHarm

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#ResistHarm Virtual Action

January 5, 2020 11:00 am
Los Altos UMC
5950 E Willow St., Long Beach CA 90808
Hosted by: Los Altos UMC

On Sunday, January 5, we invite folks to take pictures of themselves, families, friends, groups, pets! (all means all!) with #ResistHarm signs and post them on social media with the hashtag #ResistHarm. You bring your smile for justice and camera and we got the signs!

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Love is Love

January 5, 2020 10:30 am
LA FIRST UNITED METHODIST
1020 south flower st LA
Hosted by: LA First United Methodist

Since beginning pastoral ministry in 2003, it has always been my tradition to celebrate the "Festival of the Christian Home" on Mother’s Day to consider its inclusiveness. This is a United Methodist term, and we can use this as an opportunity to strengthen our homes as a place for living justly, celebrating the fullness of our creation as individuals and families of all compositions.

It has always been true - from Biblical times until today - that families have been expressed in a variety of ways. Many of us have close relationships with our families of origin, but many of us do not and have found ways to create families of choice, form covenant relationships with spouses and partners, and become loving and caring people to children of all ages.

This Sunday at Los Angeles First United Methodist Church, we will offer a Blessing of Families liturgy, in which we all are invited to come forward to be anointed and blessed. This ritual serves both to honor the people who have parented and loved us, and to honor the many ways in which we have created our families.

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Sacred Story - An LGBTQ Christian Retreat

February 28, 2020 8:00 pm
Colby Rancg
Colby Ranch Road, Plmdale, CA 93550
Hosted by: Cal-Pac LGBTQIA+ Task Force

This will be a time for retreat in the mountains with the LGBTQIA young adult community to share in recreation, the arts, friendship-building and story sharing.
We will come together to worship, listen to speakers, participate in workshops, and experience the Creator in the heart of their creation.
#ResistHarm

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Still Beloved: #ResistHarm

January 12, 2020 6:30 pm
First United Methodist Church of Ann Arbor
120 S. State St., Ann Arbor, MI 48104
Hosted by: The Wesley Foundation at the University of Michigan

12 days in to the new year, we gather to worship and to resist the harm done by the Traditional Plan. We gather to celebrate God’s inclusive love. This evening of worship will include the voices and stories of LGBTQIA+ people of faith, music, and practical ways in which United Methodists in Michigan are responding to and resisting the actions of the UMC. We believe that God loves all people, we believe that all means all!

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Roll Down, Justice

January 20, 2020 10:00 am
St. John's UMC
1207 Peabody Avenue, Memphis, TN 38104
Hosted by: UMCNext Memphis

We look forward to gathering with you on Martin Luther King day as we continue to seek God's justice for all of God's beloved community. Please help us share the word and invite your friends and fellow United Methodists to join us on Jan. 20.

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The Current: Inclusive - Relevant - Spirit-FIlled

March 28, 2020 1:00 pm
Christ Church, Bethel Park
44 Highland Rd, Bethel Park, PA 15102
Hosted by: The Current

Have you ever seen a picture of Jesus with his arms folded shut? Typically Jesus is depicted with his arms wide open. What would it look like to be a part of a church that has her arms wide open? On March 28, all who want to live into that reality are invited to gather at Christ Church, Bethel Park. We will be led in a time of inspiring worship, relevant messages, and energizing conversation, as we envision a fully inclusive and theologically diverse United Methodist Church!

We have a host of engaging speakers which include Junius B. Dotson as our key-note guest. Also included is Mitchell Hortert speaking on LGBTQIA+ Safe Spaces, Jane Ellen Nickell speaking on UMC History: Race, Gender & Sexuality, Steven Tuell on Inclusive Biblical Interpretation, Sarah Gallagher and Sarah Speedy on Hear Us: A Young Adult Perspective, and Dawn Hand and Eric Park on General Conference Possibilities and Local Church Responses.

This event will inform and organize participants who affirm ministry with and for LGBTQIA+ persons. More information and registration details can be found at thecurrentwpa.com.

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Building An Inclusive Church -- Cincinnati, OH area

February 1, 2020 9:00 am
Epiphany United Methodist Church
6635 Loveland Miamiville Rd, Loveland, OH 45140
Hosted by: Tri-State Reconciling Ministries

This training is being offered for persons in United Methodist congregations who want to learn more about the process for becoming a Reconciling Congregation. A Reconciling Congregation is a local church that publicly and actively welcomes LGBTQ persons and their families. Often these congregations have support groups and fellowship opportunities for LGBTQ persons.
#ResistHarm

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Love: A Worship Service Affirming Commitment & Connection

February 1, 2020 1:00 pm
Boston Avenue UMC
1301 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119
Hosted by: Boston Avenue UMC, St. Paul's UMC Tulsa, 13th Street Worship at Boston Avenue

This service is part of a monthly worship series in holy resistance to the Traditional Plan as we affirm LGBTQ+individuals as beloved children of God. Within the service, we will make vows of commitment to each other as a community joined together in our love for each other, and in our conviction to resist evil, injustice, and oppression in whatever forms they present themselves

This event is open to all, and includes activity stations and a children’s sermon. We hope to see you there!

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NEXT CONVERSATIONS - United Methodists moving forward toward a church for all God's people

February 15, 2020 10:00 am
Central UMC
201 3rd Avenue, Knoxville, TN 37917
Hosted by: UMCNext-Holston

Are you disappointed by the Traditional Plan and the harm caused to our LGBTQ+ siblings and the entire body of Christ during General Conference 2019? Would you like to learn more about the plans that will be presented at General Conference 2020? Do you want to be a part of a more inclusive UMC? We invite centrist and progressive United Methodists of Holston to gather for a day filled with:
- Teaching - Testimonials - Resources - Conversations
- Worship - Learning - Communion - Vision - Action
#ResistHarm

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#ResistHarm Prayer Event - Ash Wednesday 2020 - Repent and Resist

February 26, 2020 12:00 am
Locations for Repent and Resist Ash Wednesday By District: Blue Rivers: Connection Point, 1333 North 33rd Street, Lincoln, NE Dodge City: online, contact Ashley Prescott Barlow-Thompson at apbarlow@gmail.com to learn more Elkhorn Valley: online, contact Ashley Prescott Barlow-Thompson to learn more. Five Rivers: Osborn Chapel, BU Campus Flint Hills: Reading UMC, Reading AND College Ave UMC, Manhattan Gateway: Great West: online, contact Ashley Prescott Barlow-Thompson to learn more. Hays: online, contact Ashley Prescott Barlow-Thompson to learn more. Hutchinson: online, contact Ashley Prescott Barlow-Thompson to learn more. Kansas City: St. Paul's UMC, Lenexa, KS Missouri River: Saint Paul Omaha Roth Chapel. Use southwest door Parsons: Wesley UMC, Parsons, KS Prairie Rivers: Salina: Topeka: Topeka First UMC, Topeka, KS Wichita West and East: East Heights UMC, Wichita, KS
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Hosted by: Great Plains UMC

On Ash Wednesday, we are called to repent of the wrongs we have done, and to seek God's mercy and call to love all. This year Ash Wednesday is on 2/26/2020, which is the one-year anniversary of the passage of the traditional plan. We take this opportunity to repent of harm we have caused, intended and unintended, as individuals and as a Church. United Methodists throughout the Great Plains will gather at sites in each district between 8am and 5pm to offer prayer, song and contemplation as we continue to #ResistHarm. A new person will lead prayers each hour. Saint Paul Benson is hosting the Missouri River District location. Please enter on the Southwest side of the building; we will be located in the Roth Chapel.

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Minnesota Methodists Conversation with Bishop Karen Oliveto

February 23, 2020 3:00 pm
Anoka United Methodist Church
850 South Street Anoka, Minnesota 55303
Hosted by: Minnesota Methodists

Join Minnesota Methodists and Bishop Karen Oliveto, the first openly lesbian Bishop in the United Methodist Church. Bishop Oliveto will share her thoughts and answer questions on our denomination and the topic of Imago Dei, or Image of God, in this time and place of our church life.

Minnesota Methodist t-shirts will also be available for purchase and pick up at the event.

There is no ticket or RSVP necessary, but for planning purposes please let us know you are coming here.

This event will be live streamed on https://www.minnesotamethodists.org/bishop-oliveto - join us!

#ResistHarm

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